The 15 Best 3rd Wedding Anniversary Gifts for Her
You’ve made it past the toughest year of marriage (the first), but the second and third years of marriage were likely filled with many more fun and successful memories, maybe even taking you back to the honeymoon period. Highs and lows are inevitable in a marriage, yet it’s still wonderful and fulfilling.
I know that anniversaries are tough. Honestly, I hate trying to think of a gift for my loved one because there are SO many options out there.
You’re probably spinning your wheels right now trying to think of an amazing gift that shows your love for your wife or life partner – so I thought I’d help take some of the work off your plate. Keep reading to see a list of 15 of my favorite 3rd wedding anniversary gifts for her, whether you’re looking for special traditional gifts or something more modern.
Traditional Third Anniversary Gifts
If you like to follow the traditional anniversary life for gifts by year, the third anniversary’s theme is leather (see below for the traditional anniversary themes by year for the first ten years, according to Hallmark).
Traditional anniversary gifts by year:
- First anniversary: Paper
- Second anniversary: Cotton
- Third anniversary: Leather
- Fourth anniversary: Fruit or flowers
- Fifth anniversary: Wood
- Sixth anniversary: Iron or candy
- Seventh anniversary: Wool or copper
- Eighth anniversary: Pottery or bronze
- Ninth anniversary: Willow or pottery
- Tenth anniversary: Tin or aluminum
Keep reading to see which gifts we think are awesome if you’re following the traditional list. But if you are looking for modern 3rd anniversary gifts (which is crystal/glass) or gemstone gifts (3rd anniversary is pearl), scroll down a little further for those gift ideas!
Our Favorite Traditional 3rd Wedding Anniversary Gifts
Leather is a rugged material that symbolizes strength, durability, and flexibility – qualities that reflect a thriving marriage after three years. Leather gifts serve as a meaningful way to celebrate the resilience of your bond while offering a touch of timeless elegance.
From stylish accessories to personalized keepsakes, leather is a classic choice that beautifully honors this milestone. Here are some leather gifts that represent the strong bond you share.
The Klyde Women’s Wallet from Leatherology is a thoughtful and practical gift that perfectly embodies the significance of leather for a 3rd wedding anniversary. With its sleek design and high-quality craftsmanship, this wallet is both stylish and durable, making it a gift she can use and cherish for years.
This rich camel color is personally my favorite, but there are other color options available. It has plenty of compartments for cards, cash, and receipts, and comes in a beautiful gift box.
This wallet is a timeless accessory that blends beauty and utility effortlessly - and is sure to last (almost) as long as your relationship.
This might actually be my favorite leather gift, just because it's so romantic! Adorned with a personalized date (like your wedding date!) or with her initials, this single leather rose would be a unique and perfect gift and will never wilt or die. You can choose between five different colors - mahogany, dark brown, brown, natural (looks like a white rose), or black, and either barbed or barbless wire.
While I haven't purchased this gift myself, the reviews are all very positive and say it is exactly as pictured and excellent quality.
A leather corner bookmark would be the perfect gift for a book-lover! It’s made from genuine cowhide and can be inscribed with a personalized message that is hand-tooled into the leather. They'll think of you each time they begin and finish reading a new favorite book.
I’m sure your loved one has dropped their phone and had that dreaded moment where their phone is face down, hoping that the screen isn’t cracked… This gift could solve that problem! This phone case is made from tanned and finished leather so that it’s soft to the touch and keeps your phone safe, but is still slim and snug - guaranteed to ensure a long life for your iPhone.
Leather goods are super durable and last forever, making this gift an excellent idea. Depending on their phone model, you can choose between one of many colors.
This bag is one of my ultimate favorite traditional leather gifts! Everyone can use a toiletry bag, which can also be doubled as a makeup bag, or even a super cute clutch. This leather toiletry bag can be customized with her name or initials in one of 9 options and comes with a leather strap for easy carrying.
A great gift for the both of you! These leather accessories can be personalized to add your last name and your wedding date. They’re laser engraved, which means the design won’t fade or peel, and come with a card for you to write in your phone number and address. A perfect traditional three-year anniversary gift if travel is in your future (and an excellent opportunity to hint that you want to travel if you’re not planning it already!)
An engraved valet tray is one of the best leather gifts for women. It can be used for a variety of purposes: she can set it next to her bed, on her vanity, or next to the front door and toss in her personal items to make sure they don’t get lost. Who knows how many times she's misplaced her phone, keys, or even one of her credit cards after making an online purchase on her phone!
Modern Third Wedding Anniversary Gifts
If you’re a more modern couple, or if leather items aren’t your cup of tea, you may want to search for a gift containing crystal or glass (I’ve included a list of the modern anniversary gift themes, according to The Knot, for the first ten years too!)
Modern anniversary gifts by year:
- First anniversary: clocks
- Second anniversary: fine china
- Third anniversary: crystal/glass
- Fourth anniversary: electrical appliances
- Fifth anniversary: silverware
- Sixth anniversary: wood
- Seventh anniversary: brass/desk sets
- Eighth anniversary: linen/lace
- Ninth anniversary: leather
- Tenth anniversary: diamond jewelry
Keep reading to see a list of some modern 3rd anniversary gift ideas.
Our Favorite Modern Third Anniversary Gifts
Modern 3rd wedding anniversary gifts often feature crystal or glass, symbolizing clarity, transparency, and the delicate yet enduring nature of love. These materials reflect the openness and trust that form the foundation of a strong marriage while adding an element of elegance to the celebration.
From shimmering keepsakes to practical glassware, crystal and glass gifts are a beautiful way to honor three years together.
This one is my top pick in the glass/crystal category! This personalized crystal star map is a perfect 3rd wedding anniversary gift, combining the modern theme of crystal with a deeply sentimental touch. It features a beautifully engraved map of the stars from a special date, such as your wedding day, symbolizing how your love aligns with the universe.
Its elegant design and meaningful customization make it a timeless keepsake you'll both treasure forever.
Do you often store photos in photo albums - never to be seen again? A crystal photo engraving is the perfect present with a modern twist that can last a lifetime; the 3D crystal heart is laser-etched with a personal picture and engraving so you can reminisce on your favorite night as a happy couple. The material is non-fading, waterproof, and sun-proof, plus it comes with an LED lamp holder to light up the room.
These earrings would be a wonderful modern gift for a jewelry lover. You can choose between one, two, or three flowers on each pair and either a silver or gold chain. Considering that one of the flowers associated with the 3rd anniversary is the Lily of the Valley, this gift has double the meaning behind it!
A lot of people aren't a fan of flowers because they don’t last for a very long time. But these flowers will last forever! Made from high quality sparkling clean crystal, these crystal lotus candle holders would be wonderful gift to decorate your home.
What’s a better way to say cheers to the special couple than in these beautiful red wine goblets? Created from full lead crystal, these glasses are adorned with wedge and diamond Lismore cuts (and they’re dishwasher safe!). You can also search for white wine, champagne, sherry, or water glasses from the same collection.
Gemstone Anniversary Gifts
Last, but not least, gemstones are always a great option.
The gemstones for the third year of marriage are pearls; moonstones, crystal, and jade are alternatives.
Gemstones by year:
- 1st year: Gold
- 2nd year: Garnet
- 3rd year: Pearl (alternates: moonstone, crystal, jade)
- 4th year: Blue topaz
- 5th year: Sapphire
- 6th Year: Amethyst
- 7th year: Onyx
- 8th year: Tourmaline
- 9th year: Lapis Lazuli
- 10th year: Diamond
If you’re interested in something other than a crystal or leather wedding anniversary gift, I’ve included some gemstone-related gifts below.
Our Favorite Gemstone Anniversary Gifts
Pearl jewelry is a timeless gift for someone with good taste. This dainty, handmade freshwater pearl necklace would be the perfect addition to anyone’s collection. Plus, its unique design is bound to get more than a few compliments!
These stunning moonstone drop earrings come with your choice of gold filled or sterling silver wire finish. If she prefers small statement pieces that are sure to turn heads without being too flashy, these are the perfect gift for her!
Love gemstones but not much of a jewelry wearer? This Jade stone Tree of Life is a great alternative for anyone who loves beautiful gemstones but can never remember to wear jewelry (or just doesn't want to!) - it comes in three sizes and additional gemstone options are available on their store site.
Good luck finding the perfect gift that represents your 3rd year of marriage and celebrates you both as a happy couple!
Eden
Eden would rather be shopping for herself or her cat, Moon, but instead she’s writing gift suggestions for you. She’s pretty into plants, pets of all varieties, gaming, books, yoga, music, and mental health, so you’ll see her gift suggestions centered around those themes. When she isn’t writing, she’s probably working on some amazing digital coloring art. Check her out on IG @edenfeeden
